Its been awhile!

A lot of time has passed since I last wrote!  My free time has gone down to none.....and the little time I do have is spent sleeping.  Oldest is "sick" right now so I actually have a little time to write.  Things have been going good the kids have settled in and our routine is pretty stable.  The baby has gained a ton of weight and there are no longer any developmental concerns.  Middle has drastically improved his speech since getting tubes in his ears and has really started to pick up on things.  Oldest is still having difficulty and is currently going through a psych eval.  I found out today they are leaning towards RAD, evaluator decides to not wait to finish the testing and is recommending counseling start immediately.  They have a hearing next week but Ive been told by GAL and caseworker no one is recommending they return to mom at this point.  A friend of the family has intervened to get custody of just the oldest....this "friend" is also supposedly a pedophile that the kids have spent alot of time with......hmmmmm anyone else see the connections.   Suddenly the RAD and current behavior issues are making sense!  We will see what happens but it looks like my boys will at least be here through the holidays :)