We have been working with James on Deep Breathing and Relaxation. I avoided this as long as possible, as I was pretty much in denial that we were walking down this attachment road again. I kept telling myself it was JUST ADHD, not attachment issues. I feel like I just climbed over a huge mountain dealing with these same things with Matthew and we were finally down the mountain walking on flat land. Just as you think the journey is getting easy another mountain comes into view. There is a lot of mental preparation you have to go through to make another journey over the mountain. You cant turn around cause you've got a mountain behind you, so your only option is to go over. Ive been living the last few months on the flat land of the mountain trying to avoid the climb. At some point you know you have to climb that mountain to ever get on with your journey. I guess you could say Ive accepted it at this point and am gearing up for the next few years of teaching basic social skills and family values. Given that I've already done (am doing) this with Matthew I have a lot of tools and no what to expect. However I'm always looking for new strategies! I found this great blog with tons of ideas. My favorite was the relaxation books. I made one and have been working with the boys on practicing these skills.
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This totally inspired me to finally put together our "Calm Down Corner"! Im almost finished and will share pics with you soon :)